This is kavitiya’s about me (I kid you not):
all about me and my politics
this is always an incomplete, unfinished, changing document. also, this post contains potentially triggering and explicit information and details.
name(s): not telling you here
system(s): mostly singlet
species and/or spirit(s): human privileged for all of the following: nonhuman, non/human, otherkin, furry, cat, catkin, catperson, catbeing, cathuman, humancat, cat, ostricat, catostrich, shloof, catashloof, fairyshloof, catfairyshloof, catfairy, fairycat, fairy, fairykin, [also, in the past: snake, fish]
age(s): young adult, 20
pronouns: she, she’s, her, hers, herself
sex(es): non-binary, not female, not male, dyadic non intersex assigned + binary assigned female
gender(s): non-binary, genderqueer?, genderfluid?, genderfuck?, femme, not a woman, not a womyn, not a man, binary assigned a girl / woman
gender presentation(s): queer, femme, high femme, genderfluid, genderfuck
attraction(s): queer, femmephilic, queerplatonic, polyplatonic, pan?platonic, pan?philic
romance(s): queer, pan?romantic, polyromantic, spectraromantic, femmeromantic
sexuality / (ies): queer, grey-A / grey asexual, complicated-sexual, polysexual, spectrasexual, femmesexual, pan?sexual
relationship(s): queer, polyamorous, polyplatonic, queerplatonic, pan?platonic
kink(s): queer, kinky, furry, aspiring dominatrix, switch, exploring
family / (ies): searching for / building a chosen family, mostly nuclear family raised
race(s): person of colour (POC), biracial, brown, south asian, lightskinned, non white, not white, half white
ethnicity / (ies): punjabi, bengali, slavic, swiss-germanic, english?, irish?
nationality / (ies): indian, u.s. american / u.s.ian, transnational? + diasporic?
culture(s): cross cultural, rootlost
caste(s): upper caste
language(s): mostly monolingual, english (first language), hindi (to some / a fair extent), Canish, spanish (very little), french (very little),
religion(s): hindu and sikh heritage, atheist raised by mostly atheist parents, currently unsure
economic class(es): middle class, shifting
social / socioeconomic status(es): dependent, academically privileged
dis / education(s): high school graduate with IB (International Baccalaureate) diploma, was working on four year liberal arts undergraduate college degree (BA), currently on forced medical leave, academically privileged
drug usage(s) and / or history / (ies): none, barely acquainted with alcohol (bad experiences), medication clashing issues
sociality / (ies): anti / complicated social, someways introvert, someways extrovert
size(s): normative height, normatively slim, thin privileged
body modification(s): none
diet(s): largely vegetarian? + finicky / picky about meat
dis / ability (ies): disabled, person with disabilities (PWD)
intellectual dis / ability (ies): intellectually privileged, normative
developmental dis / ability (ies): developmentally privileged, normative
vision(s): myopic within a normatively privileged range (glasses wearing since a young age, have worn contacts)
hearing(s): D / deaf, bilateral moderately severe hearing loss due to at first unchecked severe neonatal jaundice, oral deaf, orally assimilated since a very young age (some experience with speech therapy when I was very young), non signing, I wear hearing aids most of the time
limbs: congenitally digitally atypical (on my left hand), otherwise normative
spine(s): normative
genetic disabilities: possibly psychiatric, otherwise none
genetic predispositions: possibly psychiatric / psychological issues, possibly heart issues (not presenting currently), possibly cancer (not presenting currently)
allergies: possibly dust allergies, some seasonal allergies sometimes, otherwise none that i know of
immune system(s): normative
digestive system(s): IBS (irritable bowel syndrome), otherwise normative
lymph system(s): normative
respiratory system(s): normative
excretory system(s): IBS, otherwise normative
sleep cycles / system(s): usually normative, sometimes nocturnal, almost always vivid / strange / awful dreams, sometimes (not very often) trouble falling asleep
skin(s): normative
hair: normative
vitals: normative
heart(s): normative
blood sugar: normative
surgical history / (ies): laparoscopic appendectomy
X-ray / CT Scan / MRI Scan / EEG / EKG / ECG / etc history / (ies): CT Scan for appendicitis, X-rays a couple times, EKG done once, EEG done once
biopsy history / (ies): none
STI / STD history / (ies): vaginitis (yeast infections), otherwise none
reproductive and (if applicable) menstrual system(s): normative as far as i know, often really bad cramps with periods
memory system(s): normative
neurotype(s): neurodivergent, psychotic, crazy, loopy, borderline, overemotional oversensitive hysterical wreck, rageful, volatile, impulsive, weird, strange, bizarre, peculiar, extremely anxious, intense, obsessive, compulsive, delusional, limerent, gloomy, moody, sad, depressed
neurotype diagnosis / (es) and / or history / (ies):
[key: * = doctor diagnosed (including all kinds of psychs), ! = acquaintance / friend / family / teacher / stranger / etc diagnosed, # = self diagnosed, ?? = undiagnosed]
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*!# stress, *!# anxiety, *# OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder), *!# depression, * MDD (major depressive disorder) / clinical depression, * !#BPD (borderline personality disorder), * borderline psychosis, * hypersexuality, * mood disorder, * behavioural issues, *# PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder), !# limerence, # trichotillomania, # dermatillomania, # many many phobias, # many many triggers, ?? neurological? semi-voluntary conscious fitlike? stimming-like? behaviours, *!# self-harm, *# suicidalism, # parasuicidalism, # homicidal ideation, # rapist ideation, # violent ideation, !# manipulation, *!# destructive behaviour, *!# violent behaviour, *# delusions, *# panic/anxiety attacks, # psychosis, # possible disordered eating issues, # bodily dysphoria
psychiatric testing history / (ies): tested several times — IQ tests, aptitude tests, psych disorder tests, personality tests, rorschach tests
hospitalization(s) / institutionalization(s) history / (ies): several psychiatric institutionalizations (forced/involuntary, voluntary-ish, & complicated), forced confinement, restraints, a few other medical hospitalizations
medications: psychiatric medication since 2004, otherwise not much/normative except for a few instances
abuse history/(ies): abuse victim / survivor (medical, psychiatric, family, emotional, verbal, physical, some sexual), abuse perpetrator (emotional, verbal, some physical, some sexual)
other characteristics: cynical, pessimistic, hopeful, idealistic, hopeless, passionate, stubborn, angry, bitter, persistent, despairing, dreamer, wisher
i do not believe there is any one true way to fight oppression.
i believe it is important to investigate the systemic natures of oppressions in order to stop them. i am invested in recognizing and being accountable for my privileges and my fuckups, acknowledging and valuing and appreciating and validating marginalized identities, respecting complex intersections, and resisting, naming, challenging and overthrowing kyriarchy in its various forms.
some of the oppressions and systems that kyriarchy is composed of:
(some of these things are restated in different words, and this is by no means a complete list)
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ableism. abuse culture. academic elitism. ageism. adultism. ahistoricalism. anthropocentrism. antisemitism. antiziganism. appropriation. asexual hate. atheist dogma. audism. authoritarian models and hierarchies. bdsm hate. binarism. body modifications hate. body policing. bullying. capitalism. cartesian dualism. casteism. christian supremacy. chronologism. cisgenderism. cissexism. classism. coercive diagnosis. colonialism. colorism. communalism. compulsory schooling. conservatism. cultural appropriation. cyber / online / internet culture hate. democracy. determinism. diet shaming. drug use enforcement. drug use & culture hate. educationism / educational institutionalism. elitism. enforced silencing. enforcing and policing dichotomies. enforcing attitudes. enforcing the self / body and self / mind dichotomies. environmental destruction. erasure. ethnicism. ethnocentrism. eurocentrism. evolutionary psychology. fascism. fat hate. food policing. fundamentalism. furry hate. gender policing. genderizations. genderqueer hate. generalizations. globalization. government ideology. grammar / spelling policing. gridmapping. GSM / GSAM (gender and (a)sexuality marginalized) hate. healthism. heightism. heteronormativity. heterosexism. hierarchalism. hindutva. hueism. imperialism. individualism. islam hate. jingoism. kink hate. kink policing. language(s) policing / imposition. liberalism. libertarianism. linearity. looksism. majority rule. marginalization. marriage as an enforced norm. misogyny. monoamorism. monogamism. monosexism. nation-state ideology. nationalism. nazism. neocolonialism. neoliberalism. nerd / geek hate. nonconsent culture. nonconsensual / coercive fetishization. nonconsensual / coercive sexualization. normativity. objectivism. oppression of undocumented beings. oppressive family structures. oppressive notions of science. oralism. orientalism. otherkin hate. parentism. patriotism. policing. policing selfhoods. privatization. progressivism. property ideology. queer hate. racism. rape culture. republicanism. religious / spiritual discrimination. reproductivism. revisionism. saffronization. scientific dogma. sectarianism. sex work hate. sexism. sexualism. shaming. singletism. sizism. speciesism. standardized work and education. statism. stigmatization. the academic industrial complex. the adult / child dichotomy. the “all dichotomies must be false dichotomies” philosophy. the bigoted myth of neutrality. the prison industrial complex. totalitarianism. transabled hate. transmisogyny. trans (*) hate. universalism. victim blaming. war. zionism.
